Why does everyone want to lecture him about this? Bucky isn't the first person, and he probably won't be the last.

"I'm not excited about the fighting," Peter clarifies. Okay, maybe he's excited about being Spider-Man sometimes, but that's not what Bucky said -- Bucky said fighting people. "I'm excited about helping people. I'm excited about being able to protect people. If I can do that without fighting people, then great, but there's always going to be times where I'm not going to do that without fighting."